Ego, Self-Importance, and Resistance

Feb 04, 2026

The ego thrives on separation.

It misidentifies who we are with:

  • the body

  • achievements

  • possessions

  • reputation

From this misidentification arises self-importance — the belief that we are personally offended by the way the world is.


The Cost of Being Offended

Self-importance feeds on offense. It requires us to believe the world should conform to our expectations.

This stance quietly restricts possibility.

As Wayne Dyer framed it: are we acting as host to what’s possible — or held hostage by ego?


Letting Go as Liberation

Releasing the need to:

  • be right

  • win

  • appear superior

  • manage reputation

is not a loss of power.

It is a return to alignment.


👉 Next in this series: Worthiness, Self-Respect, and the Friendly Universe [LINK]

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